Why are we scared of letting go? Scared of a new beginning?
We are holding on to things which aren’t good for us.
Why do we let negativity destroy our joy, poison our happiness?
Why do we think holding on is better than letting go?
If something does not feel good, why do we imagine this will change and everything will turn out fine and we will be happy?
Perhaps it is a relationship which turned bad and we fail to see that it is over or can’t accept it. It could be a job to which we stuck that sucks the energy out of us. it is a lifestyle which isn’t good for us. Fake friends…
We should not fight the old, we should fight for the new.
I know the heart needs more time to accept what the mind already knows.
Why would you stay on a job you don’t like, wasting your time? Even worse, if you are getting so stressed and anxious, the job robs your sleep.
The price you pay is simply too high: Your wellbeing is at stake and chances are you are heading for a serious burnout.
So what are you afraid of, why not look at alternatives? Write the application for your dream job or build your own business!
What can you lose? At worst you don’t succeed immediately and you keep trying.
But it could well work out! So what is worse, to look for a new opening or continuing to do something you hate every damn day?
The same is true for a relationship which is over and you still hold on to.
You can’t change a person or a person’s feelings. You cannot force someone into love. You have to try to accept the situation for what it is and not for how you wanted it to be. Don’t stress the could haves, if it should have, it would have!
It is painful to give up on someone and to stop hoping. Or to give up on what you thought is what you want.
It will hurt to let someone go who you still love. But there is no need to feel defeated.
And never let loneliness drive you back into the arms of someone who doesn’t belong to you.
The pain will leave one day, and you can open your heart again. You can fall in love with someone who loves you back, someone who shows you the respect you deserve.
A new beginning is often disguised as a painful ending. So open up your heart.
Letting go is the key, the key for a happier version of yourself.
Don’t be scared of the unknown. Be excited by the possibilities it offers.
Change is never made without inconvenience, often it is painful.
But nothing is more painful than to be stuck where you don’t belong. It will break you.
If you have a dream, a vision, focus on it!
And if you feel that it feels right, it usually is!
Be brave enough to live the life you love. Have the courage to live it your way and start over, regardless of what you may lose. Because you can win so much more.
It is the time of the year for a fresh start. The year has just started; keep these fresh vibes in you. Take one step at the time. Open your wings, keep your eyes and your heart open and be ready to fly.
You have a new story to write, and it looks nothing like your past!